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The blame game – Who is to be blamed?

Quite arguably the oldest game in the history of mankind is the “blame game” which has its origins in the garden of Eden, after the fall of man, when man sinned against God. When God questioned Adam, if he had eaten the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good and of evil, which God had commanded him not to eat of, Adam fessed up that he did eat. However, before his confession, he frivolously attempts to blame it on his woman and then audaciously attempts to blame his sin on God (Genesis 3:12). Then when God asked the woman, “What is that you have done?”, she also fessed up that she did eat, but before she confessed, she also attempted to shift the blame on the serpent (the devil) whom she said beguiled her (Genesis 3:13).

Eve blamed the devil (ancient serpent – Revelation 12:9), who is guilty as charged, for he is a  deceiver of the world (Revelation 12:9), but did you notice, Adam, not only tried to blame the woman (who was made to be his help meet), but he also tried to blame God by saying, the woman that you (God) have given to be with me, is the one who made him sin.

Points to ponder:
Even today, there are those who futilely attempt to blame their circumstances or others for their personal failures in the spiritual realms. Some go so far as to even blame God but the scripture makes it very clear that God cannot be tempted with evil nor does he tempt anyone, but each man is tempted when he is drawn away of his own lust and enticed, as was Eve and Adam (James 1:13-14).

Infact, the devil is the tempter (Matthew 4:3), but it is man and woman who sins out of their own lusts. We have no one to blame but ourselves when we disobey God to gratify our selfish desires. If we are playing the blame game, for our sinful lifestyle and personal disobediences against God’s commandments, let us stop playing this blame game, blaming others and certainly not, blame our failures on God. Instead let us watch and pray that we shall not fall into temptations and let us endure it, for when we are tried, we shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord has promised to them that love him (James 1:12).

Genesis 3:12-13 (KJV)
12 And the man said, The woman whom thou gavest to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I did eat.
13 And the Lord God said unto the woman, What is this that thou hast done? And the woman said, The serpent beguiled me, and I did eat.

James 1:13-14 (KJV)
13 Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil, neither tempteth he any man:
14 But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed.

James 1:12 (KJV)
12 Blessed is the man that endureth temptation: for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord hath promised to them that love him.

Not to con but to confess

The two questions that God asked Adam, after God had asked him where he was (after Adam had sinned) are: “Who told you that you were naked?” and “Have you eaten of the tree that I commanded you that you should not eat?”.

The first question goes unanswered and in the article entitled ‘The Naked Question“, an exposition of the first question from God was given. The second question gets answered even though the question itself may seem quite absurd and rhetorical to an omniscient God. The question was “Hast thou eaten of the tree, whereof I commanded thee that thou should not eat?” and Adam answered, after attempting some frivolous excuses and playing the “blame game”, “I did eat.”

The significance of God’s questioning and Adam’s response lies in the fact that God is showing us his character. Though he knew of Adam’s sin, he asked Adam instead of accusing him. God wanted Adam to confess for those who confess shall find mercy (Proverbs 28:13).

Adam eventually fessed up saying “I did eat” (Genesis 3:12). Imagine for a moment, what Adam’s consequence would have been, if he had try to con God, or denied his sin. If Adam had refused to accept him sinfulness, implying that he was without sin, he would have made God a liar (1 John 1:10). The Bible teaches us that God is not a man that he should lie nor the son of man that he should repent (change his mind) (Numbers 23:19). It is man, that needs to repent, when he/she sins, with a change and renewing of the mind, so that it does not conform to the patterns of this world (Romans 12:2). The Bible states that if we confess our sins, God is faithful to forgive us and cleanse us of all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9) and whoever covers sins will not prosper, but he that confesses (his sins) and forsakes (his sinful life) shall find mercy (Proverbs 28:13).

The wages of sin is death, but instead of punishing Adam and Eve with death, which they deserved, God was merciful in letting them live, but since God is a Holy God, and no unholiness can dwell in his presence, sinful man and woman had to be removed from the garden of God, where God came to commune with man. Though God is a Holy God, he does not accuse man of their sins and is a merciful and forgiving God.

Points to ponder:
Let us not make God a liar but let us find mercy and forgiveness from God. This comes by us,  acknowledging our unrepented sinfulness and confessing our sins, so that he, who is faithful, will have mercy upon us and forgive us, because of his faithfulness. God wants us not to con him, but to confess to him. Have I fessed up? Have you fessed up?

Genesis 3:11-12 (KJV)
11 And he said, Who told thee that thou wast naked? Hast thou eaten of the tree, whereof I commanded thee that thou shouldest not eat?
12 And the man said, The woman whom thou gavest to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I did eat.

Proverbs 28:13 (KJV)
13 He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.

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